Aug. 9, 2022

61. Moms, Can We Give Each Other a Break & Stop the Judging?

61. Moms, Can We Give Each Other a Break & Stop the Judging?

As moms, one thing we face on the daily is that we second guess ourselves constantly. We have this set of self imposed rules, we use to really judge ourselves, largely because we have our own level of perfectionism that we're trying to hit. It seems...

As moms, one thing we face on the daily is that we second guess ourselves constantly. We have this set of self imposed rules, we use to really judge ourselves, largely because we have our own level of perfectionism that we're trying to hit. It seems like most of our actions are based on trying to be a certain way, for ourselves and for our family, and for everybody that's looking on us. But another thing we also face is criticism from others, especially moms who are constantly judging the actions of other moms.    In this episode, I want to talk about why we as moms need to give each other a break already and stop the judging! I share how judgment is a learned and nurtured behaviour, the constant barrage of choices and second guessing we deal with as moms, turning judgment into empathy and why we need to stop creating further divisions amongst moms.    In this episode, we cover:

  • Facing judgment from other moms  [0:52]
  • How do you become a judgmental person? [6:29]
  • Turn judgment into empathy 20:12]
  • When you love yourself you don’t compare yourself to others [30:05]
  • What to do the next time you judge a mom [39:41]

 

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